tonja, sorry to hear about the horrible week and the break up. From first hand experience (being in college, and a guy), many, not most, but many guys dont want a relationship till they are out of college. Well at least not till the very end of college. I'm stayin relationship free till 3rd year cuz i need the first 2 years to myself.
bout the period thing, well, my ex was on seasonal. That stuff works wonders.