Yeah, that's the whole point of the norm. Glad you found it helpful.
It is a big deal. If you can truly carve your softboots on the greens, changing edges before the board points downhill and all, then you're ready for hardboots. But if you can't do that, you should really get it down before switching. Why go to unfamiliar more responsive equipment to learn a new skill when you can do it on familiar equipment that is more forgiving? That would make no sense, and only make it harder. That would be like riding your bicycle and deciding you want to learn how to wheelie, so you switch to a motorcycle first.