Congratulations.....you are about to enroll in the Relational Course of your Life.Its really important how you proceed from here. Do you react out of a wounded , bitter place. Treat the whole thing as a humorous bump in the road? Or really learn from Life how the Human Heart is Wired..! Be very very careful how you choose to proceed..If you choose to proceed from an unresolved wounding relationship , you may carry baggage that colors your perception of your next attempt to form a healthy integration with another person. Thats why 65% of divorced people wind up getting another divorce....the original wound never got healed properly. If you bitterly keep a critical spirit about the one who hurt you ,its like taking poison and saying to the other person"now die!" you only are hurting yourself..and all other relationships you try to build.
There are safeguards and guidelines to how the Universe and the Heart are Wired.Unfortunately we rarely attempt to learn and try them till we hit the wall
at mid-life crisis or something else forces us to reevaluate our approach.
If you're interested email me your address and Ill send you a great series of cd's from a local pastor who I was fortunately open to after many years of going around in painful and self destructive circles