You know, there is nothing wrong having fun with guys and ****ing around with them every now and then. Good thing I took myself out of the dating pool several weeks ago. I realized that somehow, I was doing the cuddling and hugs and smiles and deep intellectual conversations and then they wanted to get into long relationships!!! After the third guy I realized I must be doing something wrong.
Solution: When I meet a new guy I tell them that I am emotionally dead and incapable of returning any feelings. I am only interested in a platonic relationship (ie- I get to cuddle and take naps with the person and they get to love me like a cute person not some chick who would be great without her clothes on) and hope that works for them.
Results: Since the switch to platonic relationships I have been able to particepate in communal napping , late nights out, hanging and chilling, making disgusting sexual jokes, and wrestling on beds.
Reaction: After hearing my new life change somebody said "Oh yeah, I forgot you were young." Ironically, this person is only a year older than me. Whatever man. I love being loved and playing around in the innocent and cute sense. I do mind-**** but they know it and they do it back at me. It is awesome. This is what friendships should be like, atleast in my opinion. Mutually loving, playful, bluntly honest, and cuddly.
*Rant End*