cail Posted November 24, 2009 Report Share Posted November 24, 2009 pfffft where were my hugs???? ahhh.. you just weren't in the right location Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted November 24, 2009 Report Share Posted November 24, 2009 hey aisling,i only read the past three pages or so, and since this is a public forum, i'll just have to jump in here with my answer to the question "why are you single?" first of all i think this is a really dumb question, very shallow too. do you ever ask anybody "why are you in a relationship"? as if there were are norm! i too got this question a lot. "oh, how can someone like you be single" blah blah BS! some people just don't fall in love easily, or are lucky to easily find a partner that matches and get that fireworks et al. and i usually just answer with the simple and honest truth: "because i haven't met anybody that i fell in love with". i was single for 8 years, and it gets really annoying to be asked this question. i definitely started questioning myself too. remember, YOU determine the norm and NOT society!!! i'd rather be a long-term single then a serial-monogamist. What a great answer! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted November 24, 2009 Report Share Posted November 24, 2009 pfffft where were my hugs????What the heck is a ginger? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sinecure Posted November 24, 2009 Report Share Posted November 24, 2009 What the heck is a ginger? Redhead Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 26, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 26, 2009 hey aisling,i only read the past three pages or so, and since this is a public forum, i'll just have to jump in here with my answer to the question "why are you single?" first of all i think this is a really dumb question, very shallow too. do you ever ask anybody "why are you in a relationship"? as if there were are norm! i too got this question a lot. "oh, how can someone like you be single" blah blah BS! some people just don't fall in love easily, or are lucky to easily find a partner that matches and get that fireworks et al. and i usually just answer with the simple and honest truth: "because i haven't met anybody that i fell in love with". i was single for 8 years, and it gets really annoying to be asked this question. i definitely started questioning myself too. remember, YOU determine the norm and NOT society!!! i'd rather be a long-term single then a serial-monogamist. definitely great response :) thanks for your input! welcome aboard to the crazy train! haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 26, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 26, 2009 ahhh.. you just weren't in the right location well wth? if its a day for us reds, the hugs should come to US! ;) i did get a hug from a stranger for being a good samaritan and helping him and his wife with her wheelchair so that was one! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cail Posted November 27, 2009 Report Share Posted November 27, 2009 well wth? if its a day for us reds, the hugs should come to US! ;) you must be hard to find :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ecnalubma Posted November 29, 2009 Report Share Posted November 29, 2009 "What the heck is a ginger?" A ginger is a redhead WITH freckles. daywalkers just have red hair, no freckles. ( my daughter is a daywalker!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 30, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 30, 2009 you must be hard to find :p well where have you been looking, cail?;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 30, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 30, 2009 "What the heck is a ginger?"A ginger is a redhead WITH freckles. daywalkers just have red hair, no freckles. ( my daughter is a daywalker!) hmmm i must be somewhere in between... my face is freckle-less but i do have them on my back, arms and shoulders... sporadically elsewhere LOL :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdyno Posted November 30, 2009 Report Share Posted November 30, 2009 Somebody, anybody, please make the inevitable join-the-dots comment so I don't have to. Thank you, you may now return to regular spamming. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cail Posted December 3, 2009 Report Share Posted December 3, 2009 well where have you been looking, cail?;) you're email isn't enabled Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted December 3, 2009 Report Share Posted December 3, 2009 Ais, how was the date? and was there a second? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted December 4, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 4, 2009 you're email isn't enabled its my AIM listed at hotmail :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted December 4, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 4, 2009 Ais, how was the date? and was there a second? ugh, Michelle... nothing so far has led me to believe there are decent people left in the world. i think that sums it up. it's as if I have some sort of weird psycho magnet. oh well. life's about taking chances. one of these days it will work out :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted December 15, 2009 Report Share Posted December 15, 2009 well, some decent people but not many single ones. sorry to hear that, but yeah, life is all about taking chances! Good for you for still taking them! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wavechaser Posted December 15, 2009 Report Share Posted December 15, 2009 Just to chime in from the guys side - I was dating a lot this year until recently. Mostly from online stuff. What a nightmare. Lots of (now) funny stories from it though. Some people are SO f-ing bizzare. I'm starting to think I just don't belong in Vermont. The best women I have met, that I have the most in common with, that have the spark between us, always seem to be in California, Texas, Hawaii, Germany, England or some other far corner of the globe. Been that way all my life - if I had a dollar for every time i had to say..."if we only lived closer". I'm starting to be at least somewhat financially secure for the first time in my life at age 47, so maybe it is time to move to "where the girls are". :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted December 15, 2009 Report Share Posted December 15, 2009 Hey Wavechaser, don't think you are alone in your search. Seems I always meet super cool people that live far away. But I have seen long distance stuff work - my friend in Deutschland met a girl from New Orleans and they are now married! I agree, some people are really bizzare and I seem to have a beacon on my forehead that attracts them. It's not just the ladies, it's guys too! Although I do have a guy friend here that has some realy really funny stories about dating girls in Summit. wishing you all the best in your search! :) It's scary out there! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wavechaser Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 Thanks Michelle - my most recent dating experience went like this: Had two "coffee" dates about a half hour each. She then sent me numerous emails saying "I can't figure you out", but you are "hot" and i'm still interested. Went out to dinner. In between, she searched me on Facebook and sent me a friend request. Asked me at dinner why I hadn't accepted it. I told her that I barely know here yet and let's see where this goes. She completely freaked and said I was "judging" her by not being her Facebook friend. This is a 45 year old woman we are talking about. I told her that in the interest of getting to know her better, I'd like to know what she means by "I can't figure you out". Figure WHAT out, I asked, and WHY do you feel you need to do that after only a coule dates? "Now you are trying to railroad me", she said. End of dating that one. -RF Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 :lol:HA HA HA HA OMG it sounds like my friend in Breck. He had a girl talk about her cat the entire first date, and then when he dropped her off she attacked him and ripped the pocket off his shirt! Wow, there are really some kooky people out there. I can't believe this woman is 45 and she's freaking out because you won't friend her on FB. WOOO yeah, she makes you really want to hang out with her all the time I'm sure! Wow, keep looking....and good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted December 16, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 wavechaser... O.M.G. seriously? that is ridiculous. you should go to CO and take Michelle out. sorry for jumping into your convo guys ... back i go to work... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncermak Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 Then I move to Summit County. Like its going to be any better! But at least you'll have some good snowboarding! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benno Posted December 19, 2009 Report Share Posted December 19, 2009 I thought the ratio was more favourable for you girls up here angie? Then again someone said to me about Antarctica: the odds are good but he goods are odd! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benno Posted December 19, 2009 Report Share Posted December 19, 2009 Wp Tonight mate but I'll call ya soon ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted December 21, 2009 Report Share Posted December 21, 2009 the odds are good but he goods are odd!you got that right! WOW it's really unbelievable. and if they're not already the less sharpest crayon in the box, they smoke so much it just makes them....well.....dumb. can barely hold a conversation without saying "dude" at least 10 times, or "Brah". ugh. I'm over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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