Portland Maine.
Shawnee Peak is decent for a quick carving fix an hour away, or there's Sunday River 1.75 hours away or Sugarloaf 2.25 hours away.
Second only to San Francisco for restaurants/bars per capita - great nightlife.
Need the big city every now and then? 2 hrs to Boston by road, or take the train.
Great long sandy beaches, albeit only 8 weeks a year to enjoy them. And there's actual Surfing to be had.
Ocean - out of this world boating, sailing, kayaking, etc.
Woods/Mountains - hiking, biking, camping, hunting, etc.
Lakes/Rivers - fishing, canoeing, rafting, kayaking, etc.
Traffic? What's that?
However, there is that little matter of the worst state taxes in the US.