Hello north east will,
The biggest issue you have right now is you are just starting to get into carving (congrats!) and you have no "history" to base your choices on. So no matter what, there will be some adjustments and tweaking until you find what works best for you. Also, do not forget you have a stack of other adjustments to work with as well; ie. stance width, stance angles, set-back, boot forward lean, etc. So picking the binding parts is just one of many parts of the equation.
Regardless, we should try and get you as close as possible right out of the gun. To be honest our two biggest set-ups are 3/3 and 3/6 so I would say either of these will work great for you. And for the E-ring I would go medium (Purple) to give you a little bit more absorption during the "get comfortable" stages of carving. Then as things get "faster" you might want to try the Reds.
Hope this helps and ask more questions if needed.