Aisling Posted October 8, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 8, 2009 finally processed.... there's a pic of all 3 of us very far away... that was when one of your mates took a pic from across the road! we all look very tiny! all this means is i have to visit you guys in Oz to get better pics hahah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted October 14, 2009 Report Share Posted October 14, 2009 Processed? You mean you used film? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted October 17, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 17, 2009 yes i did! weird i know! hehe i know have a glorious cybershot that i rarely use.... i do need to start takin more pics before myself and friends get old and wrinkly... need proof later on when we're grannies that we used to be hotties ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted October 19, 2009 Report Share Posted October 19, 2009 You'll always be a hottie, just an older hottie :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 2, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 2, 2009 oh michelle you say the nicest things hahahaha i do aspire to one day be a MILF - LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wavechaser Posted November 2, 2009 Report Share Posted November 2, 2009 I could be a FYLF...if I had any kids....oh well. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted November 2, 2009 Report Share Posted November 2, 2009 hot single dads are pretty sexy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 12, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 12, 2009 is this a budding online romance here guys? :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wavechaser Posted November 12, 2009 Report Share Posted November 12, 2009 is this a budding online romance here guys? :lol: Silly Aisling...what the heck good is an ONLINE romance? If I lived in Colorado, or vice versa then... ...and I'm not a "single dad" - just plain single. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 16, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 16, 2009 hmmm anything keeping you in CO, Michelle ? ;) Question folks... how does a girl respond to the q "why are you single?" i believe most guys mean it as a compliment, but for some reason i feel a teensy bit defensive when asked. am i alone with that reaction? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neil Gendzwill Posted November 16, 2009 Report Share Posted November 16, 2009 I think that's a pretty rude question. It implies that there is someone to blame and that someone is you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncermak Posted November 16, 2009 Report Share Posted November 16, 2009 it a little like being in a performance and being asked your weaknesses...BS question. But I don't have the right answer for you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wavechaser Posted November 16, 2009 Report Share Posted November 16, 2009 I find myself usually asking the reverse of that - "Why aren't you single?" ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 16, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 16, 2009 carvingchef i like your reply! that's a good one ! that's a very southern lady response to a rude question "why do you ask?" hehe i guess the reason i was trying to take it in a positive way is it is usually prefaced with, "you're so pretty, etc..." so why are you single or how could you be single... i definitely see the negative flip side too, which i think is what makes one a bit defensive when asked. its not the worst thing ever said to me to be sure! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted November 17, 2009 Report Share Posted November 17, 2009 just smile and respond "why do you want to know?"it puts the pressure back on them, you can use that to answer any question you don't really want to answer Luv this answer! I use that approach when anyone asks me anything I don't necessarily want to or feel the need to respond to. I hear ya Ais, I get that question all the time. But it's NEVER from single guys! Always married ones, or my girlfriends but mostly my family. I think they have just given up and think now that I'm gay (not that there's anything wrong with that!) and would rather just keep it to myself. HA HA I always say that to myself when I look my best too - like when I'm hung over, doing plumbing work, or after giving the dogs a bath when they've rolled in something especially stinky. HEY BOYS - All this and single too? WAHOOO! LOL Best of luck Ais, because at the very least you live in a place where you have lots to choose from. I live in Summit - UGH! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 18, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 18, 2009 i have a date this week... so i'll try not to abandon all hope hahahaha Michelle I usually get hit on by married men which does not make me happy. I don't know what about me says, " please married person, hit on me, i'm a whore who will sleep with you and ruin your marriage" because i would never, ever, ever do that sort of thing. Or they say, " gee, IF i were single... " :p as an ex of mine once said, "don't piss off the redhead... red is nature's danger color for a reason" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncermak Posted November 18, 2009 Report Share Posted November 18, 2009 "don't piss off the redhead... red is nature's danger color for a reason" ais...It might be time to change your signature! good luck on the date! you gonna be at the ski expo? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted November 18, 2009 Report Share Posted November 18, 2009 You have a date? That's awesome! I'll try and be optomistic at least for you :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 18, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 18, 2009 ais...It might be time to change your signature!good luck on the date! you gonna be at the ski expo? Noah, maybe you're right... ;) where and when is expo? that determines my being there or not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 18, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 18, 2009 You have a date? That's awesome! I'll try and be optomistic at least for you :) I realize now that makes it sound like i don't go on dates... i should qualify that with... "with someone I might actually like" hahaha thanks Michelle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dantheman0177 Posted November 19, 2009 Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 i have a date this week... so i'll try not to abandon all hope hahahaha Go Ais!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cail Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 yesterday was National Hug a Ginger Day :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdyno Posted November 22, 2009 Report Share Posted November 22, 2009 I think Michelle is single so she doesn't have to share her chocolate. I also think she has dogs because they are not allowed to eat chocolate so more for her. But it's just a guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aisling Posted November 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 23, 2009 yesterday was National Hug a Ginger Day :D pfffft where were my hugs???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anke Posted November 24, 2009 Report Share Posted November 24, 2009 hey aisling, i only read the past three pages or so, and since this is a public forum, i'll just have to jump in here with my answer to the question "why are you single?" first of all i think this is a really dumb question, very shallow too. do you ever ask anybody "why are you in a relationship"? as if there were are norm! i too got this question a lot. "oh, how can someone like you be single" blah blah BS! some people just don't fall in love easily, or are lucky to easily find a partner that matches and get that fireworks et al. and i usually just answer with the simple and honest truth: "because i haven't met anybody that i fell in love with". i was single for 8 years, and it gets really annoying to be asked this question. i definitely started questioning myself too. remember, YOU determine the norm and NOT society!!! i'd rather be a long-term single then a serial-monogamist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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